When your dream is shattered because of unavoidable situation, no one is against you. But when your self-image is shattered because of an abusive word (even with one word), then someone is against your self image.
I begin to realize about the essence of human's life. I begin to realize that the beginning of human life is a gift, either later on he/she will treasure it or not by what he/she does in this earthly living. In knowing the fact about human's spirit, by and by, God helped me to sweep away my grieving.
God uses many ways to show that He is there, He is not far away to comfort me...even in my past grieving
process. It was so painful for a mother like me, to be in a temporary separation with my late baby girl. But finally, by and by, God gradually changed my heart. I finally could admit that she would be safer in God's hand. God is her father through eternity and His protection and love is so perfect.
The way each person copes with grieving process, I believe, is unique. I was a mother with a mark "Fragile, handle with care". But I am what I am today because of His grace alone and nothing but God's grace.
He is my God that always comes up with ultimate question to quench my anguish of being set apart from the loved one. For you who have been in the valley of grieving, I know that you can understand the anguish along the grieving process.